Our two days in Smithville were wonderful - relaxing, rejuven- ating - I mean after hiking through these gorgeous woods for an hour we find this 90 ft waterfall with a private swimming hole and since we were the only guests on the property we had it all to ourselves. Amazing. It was easy to forget that we'd just left our entire lives behind us and are just treading water in limbo land. Unfortunately you can't stay under a waterfall all day and once we got on the road to Nashville it was like somebody turned the stress switch back on, which, unfortunately for my husband, also means the bitch switch. Hence the drama over blue jeans mentioned above. Over a fabulous dinner last night we agreed to stop nitpicking each other and actually be the support system to each other that we promised to be.