Greetings seem to be a very important part of Nigerian culture. A series of questions and answers must be exchanged with each person whom you interact. For example: Joey: "Good morning."
Nigerian: "Good morning. How was your night?" (He is asking Joey how he slept.)
Joey: "Good, and yours?"
Nigerian: "Good. How was your wife?" (He is not asking about my performance. He is inquiring about my health).
Joey: "Good. How was your sister?" Seriously. In which context, sister usually means wife and Auntie is usually mother because you call your female boss your "ma." And so it goes.
Anyway, this morning I went to the snack cart for my coffee. Me: "Good morning."
Gambo: "Good morning. How is de boss?"
Me (one eyebrow raised): "Jordan?"
Gambo: "No! Your husband!"
I'm sure no one needs to psychoanalyze how I felt about that. Gambo also likes to tell Joey when I get order coffee cake from the snack cart. "The madam got the peach cake," he tells Joey. Thanks, tattletale.
According to my coworker in the office, "In Nigerian culture the 'usband is the alpha and the omega. His wife must do anything he asks." Hmm. I think I'll just let that one go...